Category Archives: relationships

Going Through a Lull?

Posted on August 1, 2019 by

I had an interesting conversation with an old colleague yesterday that I hadn’t seen in years. We talked business for a while, then I shared with him about my new focus on marriage and coaching couples to have better relationships. … Continue reading →

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Complacency is the Enemy

Posted on February 6, 2019 by

Don’t settle for “fine”. Fight complacency! Evolve your relationship into a truly Shocking Marriage! Continue reading →

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Marriage Resolutions 2019

Posted on January 11, 2019 by

None of us should be complacent with where we are in our marriages. No matter where you are in your relationship, there is always room for improvement. Don’t stress about transformation that needs to take place overnight, take the long view. Continue reading →

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Mixing God and Sex?

Posted on November 28, 2018 by

Spiritual intimacy and sexual intimacy need not reside in separate compartments, they beautifully meld together if we just allow them to. Continue reading →

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Thankful for my wife

Posted on November 20, 2018 by

During this season which we’ve just endured, I’ve both prayed with my wife and for my wife. And I know that she has done the same for me. It’s hard to imagine feeling any closer to her than I do right now. Continue reading →

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Confidence over Comfort

Posted on October 30, 2018 by

While we want to be comfortable around our spouse, it’s important to realize that it is a fine line between comfort and complacency. Continue reading →

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Look past the words…

Posted on October 9, 2018 by

Look beyond the words spoken, to the heart of the person saying them. Continue reading →

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The Golden Rule of Marriage

Posted on September 27, 2018 by

…a slight revision to the Golden Rule that applies to marriage. It goes like this “Do unto others (your spouse) as they want to be done unto”. Continue reading →

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No Marriage is Perfect

Posted on April 12, 2018 by

  I work with people in various levels of marital distress. I like to think that I provide them with Godly counsel and practical advice on how to make their situation better. But the key here is the word – “better”. … Continue reading →

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5 Steps to a Shocking Marriage: #4

Posted on February 22, 2018 by

Step #4 – Set Goals A shocking marriage is one that improves over time. As we’ve already discussed, this doesn’t happen naturally, it takes prioritization and intentionality. Without a concerted effort to improve, marriages simply degrade over time. Anyone who … Continue reading →

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