Category Archives: sex

Mixing God and Sex?

Posted on November 28, 2018 by jmccolgin

Spiritual intimacy and sexual intimacy need not reside in separate compartments, they beautifully meld together if we just allow them to. Continue reading →

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Why Women Aren’t Like CrockPots

Posted on May 23, 2012 by jmccolgin

We’ve all heard the analogy that when it comes to sex, men are like microwave ovens and women are like CrockPots.  The premise here is that men are quickly and easily aroused while women take in stimulus over a longer … Continue reading →

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Where’s your focus?

Posted on January 10, 2012 by jmccolgin

We weren’t designed to be self-sustaining organisms.    We inherently require things from the world around us to survive and to thrive.  We have physical needs (e.g. food, water, clothing, shelter), emotional needs (e.g. acceptance, love, friendship, empathy), sexual needs … Continue reading →

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Try having an affair!

Posted on October 31, 2011 by jmccolgin

I used to work in a large corporate setting.  In that environment, I found myself periodically working for and with people that were having extra-marital affairs.  It never ceased to amaze me the level of energy and effort these people … Continue reading →

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The unhealthy games we play – Part 1 – sex

Posted on September 8, 2011 by jmccolgin

I’m convinced that the difference between a mediocre marriage and a shocking marriage are the games that we play with each other.  I’m not talking about recreational activities, but rather control-based games of power and manipulation. In the workshops we’ve … Continue reading →

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