Tag Archives: marital conflict

Marriage Tips from an Expert – Sally Livingston

Posted on December 10, 2020 by jmccolgin
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Fighting Fair – Tip 4 Less You, More I

Posted on October 28, 2020 by jmccolgin
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Fighting Fair Tip 3 – Avoid Absolutes

Posted on October 22, 2020 by jmccolgin
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Fighting Fair Tip 2 – Focus on the Issue, not the Person

Posted on October 21, 2020 by jmccolgin
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Complacency Kills Marriages

Posted on June 29, 2020 by jmccolgin

It is natural for us to fall into routines, it’s a natural way for our brains to organize complex actions into repeatable patterns. But when we allow routines to govern our lives, complacency sets in. If you don’t have to … Continue reading →

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A Lesson in Humility

Posted on April 14, 2020 by jmccolgin

When you find yourselves facing a challenge that involves both you and your spouse, remember that your two minds together can come up with a solution better than what either one of you could do on your own. Continue reading →

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Don’t Live Life in Your Rear View Mirror

Posted on November 5, 2019 by jmccolgin

I have traveled to India several times. One thing that always amazes me is the traffic and the way people drive there. A given four-lane road may contain seven actual lanes, consisting of cars, trucks, scooters, pedestrians and cows. Despite … Continue reading →

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Arguing? Break it Down!

Posted on October 1, 2019 by jmccolgin

All couples have conflict. Unless you married a clone of yourself, you will find times where you disagree on an issue. And sometimes, it seems there is no way to get to a resolution where you will both be satisfied. … Continue reading →

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Going Through a Lull?

Posted on August 1, 2019 by jmccolgin

I had an interesting conversation with an old colleague yesterday that I hadn’t seen in years. We talked business for a while, then I shared with him about my new focus on marriage and coaching couples to have better relationships. … Continue reading →

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Keeping conflict in perspective…

Posted on February 25, 2014 by jmccolgin

Fortunately, I’ve not been ignoring my marriage like I have been this blog.  In terms of my marriage, things have been good.  But it seems like we’re surrounded by those whose relationships are in dire trouble. It’s tough being around … Continue reading →

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